A Month of Thanksgiving – My Refuge and Strength

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble” (Psalms 46:1).

I am so thankful for this verse. I’ve held onto it many, many times. I could never make it without Him. I need Him desperately each and every day.

A Month of Thanksgiving – My Best in Mind

“It’s hard to trust God during the refining process of life, but that is what God longs for us to do. Trust comes down to believing that God is good even when life is terribly hard. Trust comes down to believing that the One who is refining you, loves you and has only your best in mind.”
—Kathy Troccoli

I am so thankful that God’s promises nor His Word ever fail. He is good, and He is working all things together for my good (Romans 8:28). As my pastor says, when you don’t know what is going on, trust what you do know about God.

A Month of Thanksgiving – He Will Never Leave Me

“…he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee” (Hebrews 13:5).

I will be quite busy the next few days, so each post will be short. May they still be of encouragement to you.

A Month of Thanksgiving – God Loves Me No Matter What

“Our feelings do not affect God’s facts. They may blow up, like clouds, and cover the eternal things that we do most truly believe. We may not see the shining of the promises—but they still shine!
—Amy Carmichael

I’m exhausted tonight, but just had to say that I’m thankful God loves me no matter what.

A Month of Thanksgiving – What Thanksgiving Does for You

Christina's World, 1948, by Andrew Wyeth

“Gratitude is born in hearts that take time to count up past mercies.”
—Charles E. Jefferson

Today has not been a good day, and I’ve felt stressed to the point of having chest pains. Several things happened that had to do with not having enough money, plus other things went on that are overwhelming as a single mother with enough on her plate already. I call this Single Mom Syndrome—when a single mother is so upset that she feels overwhelmed, vulnerable, unprotected, not provided for, and, many times, hopeless. In the past I would say to the Lord, “You could have stopped this—why didn’t You?”, but I’m determined not to do that now. I’m determined to trust the Lord despite the circumstances. It’s so hard. It seems every time I say something about thanksgiving or trust, the devil really lets me have it.:) Today (and for the last few weeks) I kept reminding God of His promises to take care of me and the children. Reminding Him reminds me.:)

I’ve been learning how much it helps when things go wrong to start counting your blessings. I made it a point to thank the Lord for all the good things that happened today. This truly helps my perspective. (A good nap, some southern ice sweet tea, and some chocolate doesn’t hurt either.:) ) It helps also to go back and remember harder times and how God brought us through them.

God was so good in telling us to offer Him the sacrifice of thanksgiving. He did it for Himself and, maybe, even more so, for ourselves.

“Offer unto God thanksgiving; and pay thy vows unto the most High: And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me” (Psalm 50:14-15).

Would you like to join me?
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A Month of Thanksgiving – Seasons

Fall Leaves

“While the earth remaineth, seedtime and harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and winter, and day and night shall not cease.”
—Genesis 8:22

I used to hate to see autumn arrive; it felt like death to me, because soon winter would kill everything. God has taught me to enjoy each season—each one has it’s own beauty. I’m so thankful God created seasons. What a boring world it would be without them! (By the way, the verse above is my assurance that “climate change” is not gonna get us!)

A Month of Thanksgiving – The Difference a Year Makes

August 2008 started us on a roller coaster ride with all of us having ongoing health issues that required multiple doctor visits, but the worst situation was with my oldest daughter. The rest of the health problems finally healed, but my oldest daughter was in a life-changing situation. She was first diagnosed with Raynaud’s phenomenon, which often accompanies other major diseases, so she had to go through some testing. A year ago this month, we received a devastating diagnosis of scleroderma. I was terrified and held on to the Word of God and the prayers of other Christians to get us through. Then, as I often do, I tried to imagine that this will be past us a year from now. But with this diagnosis, there would be no getting past it in a few weeks, months, or a year. It would be something she’d have to deal with for the rest of her life.

Six weeks later a specialist found that my daughter did not have scleroderma. After more and more doctor visits, my daughter was referred to another specialist to find out what was really going on. During those times of waiting for that appointment, my daughter was having multiple problems that were not going away. I researched, had a consultation with a professional herbalist, and more. I tried all sorts of natural remedies. In desperation, I went to the health food store for more products, and found that there were natural doctors in; they never had been in there before, and I go quite often! After telling them the situation, the doctors there immediately said that it was my daughter’s thyroid, especially since she looked far younger than she was. I called my daughter’s physician to see if they had checked it. With all the blood work and tests that she had had, her thyroid had not been checked! I took her right in and found that it was indeed her thyroid! Praise God that He answered my prayer and let us find out what was wrong! It really chilled me to the bone, because no one had even thought to check it, and if we had not found out, my daughter could have lost her hearing, sight, had multiple physical problems, and even have died.

The second specialist agreed that my daughter didn’t have scleroderma. She also said that with autoimmune diseases, it may be years before they present themselves, so my daughter would have to always be monitored. Her diagnosis did not comfort me; I was terrified of what the years may hold. It was terrifying waiting for the other shoe to drop at any time. Eventually, I was able to accept the diagnosis and also came to realize that perhaps the only autoimmune disease accompanying the Raynaud’s was the thyroid issue. What a comforting thought to me!

Praise God for the difference that a year makes. Praise God that He has the future in His hands.

“Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name. He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.”
—Psalm 91:14-15 KJV

(I have held on dearly to these verses during this past year.)

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A Month of Thanksgiving – Homeschooling

Mother Comforting ChildThis afternoon as my middle daughter and I were walking back from checking the mailbox, which is a good walk from our house, I saw that the school bus was just dropping off the neighborhood children. I told my daughter that if she was in a public school (or even a private one), she’d just be getting home, and would still have another 2-3 hours of homework to do. My girls were enjoying the afternoon playing, working in the yard, and enjoying the animals, because their lessons were done.

I’m so thankful that I’ve been able to homeschool my daughters from the beginning, even though it’s been hard at times. During those difficult seasons, I’ve tried to remind myself that it could be so much harder if I didn’t homeschool, with the running around and leaving the house daily, and the helping with homework at night. I’ve also been here to see everything my girls have accomplished and have struggled with. Being able to continuing homeschooling after the divorce was so important for the healing and the wellbeing of my daughters. It was so important to stay together as a family so that we all could get through it. They did not need another abrupt change in their lives.

Thank YOU, Lord, for providing for us so that I could be at home with my daughters all these years.

“But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee. For thou, LORD, wilt bless the righteous; with favour wilt thou compass him as with a shield.”
—Psalm 5:11-12 KJV

(This verse is the theme verse of our homeschool, Joyful Christian Academy for Girls. I’ve always wanted our home to be joyful, and we have seen our God defend us and shield us over and over again.)

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A Month of Thanksgiving – Dirty Dishes

Attractive Housewife in Modern Kitchen, Washing Dishes

Thank God for Dirty Dishes
author unknown

Thank God for Dirty Dishes,
They have a tale to tell.
While others are going hungry,
We’re eating very well.
With home and health and happiness,
I shouldn’t want to fuss.
For by this stack of evidence,
God’s very good to us.

My baby girl got the dishwasher going and started on the hand washing before she went to bed. I just finished them up so we can wake up to a bright, clean kitchen in the morning. My oldest is having to cook meals for us for her Home Ec. course; I’m looking forward to a great breakfast tomorrow!

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A Month of Thanksgiving – My Salvation

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As a Christian, I have to start out with one of my greatest treasures—my salvation in Jesus Christ. Whenever I think that God called me out for Himself in eternity past, it blows my mind (Eph. 1:3-14). When I think of how God orchestrated the events to get my family saved and in church, it makes me cry. My Heavenly Father has saved me from sin; even though I still sin, I am saved from the power and the punishment of sin. I don’t have to fear the future, because the Bible tells me I’m on my way to Heaven, and I’ll never lose my salvation (1 Peter 1:3-5). Praise God!

“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
John 3:16